Time-out for 5-year old

Hi Manya. Just thought I'd step in to share some info on Time-outs. Here's the reason why time-outs are not working out for you and your child. When children misbehave it means they're having a hard time with something and don't know how else to express it. They are expecting us to help them, which also means they want us to connect with them. Time-outs do just the opposite - they cause a disconnect with the child. So, we now recommend time-ins. Do click on this link to know more about the benefits of time-ins. And do let us know what you think about it. 

https://www.parentcircle.com/time-out-for-kids-are-they-really-effective/article

Hi Manya 

Here are some suggestions  from Clear to help us feel more fulfilled as a parent.

Every day, praise your child for something he or she does well in order to boost his or her self-esteem.

 Discipline is necessary for children, but self-control is also important.

 House rules can help children understand your expectations and build self-control. 

It might be beneficial to have a system in place: one warning, followed by consequences such as a time out or lost privileges.

As your child grows older and you adjust your parenting style, be adaptable and patient. 

When confronted by your child, you should avoid blame, criticism, and fault-finding. Even when disciplining your children, it is still a good idea to encourage and nurture them. Don’t be concerned about how to do everything at once; instead, focus on the areas that require the most attention.

 When you’re completely burned out, you should admit it.

Hi Manya

The mantra I learnt from PC is 

Parenting is a journey, and it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them. By approaching the challenging situations with warmth, understanding, and a willingness to learn and grow, we can help ourselves and our child to develop positive habits and behaviours over time.

Dr Daniel Siegel, a renowned psychiatrist and author has popularised the phrase "connection before correction ".

Inspite of this there are situations where my temper is escalated. Later I'd step back and introspect.

Thank you Manya for this thread.