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Respect Your Child

Dear fellow parents,

Loving our children is not something we, as parents, need to be trained to do... That comes naturally to us, doesn't it? 

What we must learn is -to respect children, no matter what age they are. Respecting children, we nurture healthy self-esteem in them.

And this is how you can make it possible with your child:

  • Let them have their say. 
  • Practice compassion. 
  • Learn to forgive them when they hit a roadblock.  
  • Let them take some small decisions in their life -choosing their friends, clothes, Netflix or Prime, Bollywood or Hollywood stuff, etc.
  • Humanize yourself as parents: tell them you are not a perfect machine that can randomly produce good results or decisions every time...

Remember: children are social assets... And we, as parents or social contractors, have the responsibility to ensure we send back healthy, and competent adults to society. 



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Comments

Mayuri Apr 2, 2026

Great points Sanjay, children thrive when you give them the freedom to choose and make decisions, with boundaries of course. They learn self-confidence, self-discipline, and self-reliance when we as parents give them the opportunity to think in a safe setting and contribute to a group decision. 

Megha Nirwan Feb 15, 2023

Yes It is correct

Whenever we go to the market to buy clothes for our children, we ask their choice. They are given full opportunity to keep their point in the house. This makes the child feel that he too has a separate identity in the house.

Arathi Vishwanath Feb 15, 2023

Yes, I do agree with you. 

  1. I do respect their comments on any of my works, and also I do ask their opinion before taking any of my decisions.
  2. In the same way, I do correct their mistakes and make them understand why they are wrong 
  3. we have given full freedom to our kids about the decision of interiors of our new house,  they both gave their ideas and we too added our views, then sat together and finalised.
  4. I like to sit with them for some time every day and share feelings mutually.