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Can't wait for Navratri? Neither can we. Check out the legends and how families and communities celebrate the nine nights and ten days

Navratri, meaning nine nights, is a Hindu festival celebrated with great enthusiasm in the month of Ashwin across India. But the celebrations vary considerably depending on the customs unique to each region. Lets take a quick look at the Navratri celebrations in each region.

Storyteller, actor and author Janaki Sabesh shares what makes kolu special for her family.
We had to give kolu a miss last year due to the pandemic, but we soon realized how much we missed the festivities, our friends, the colors, the artisans and the music. So, we put up a mini version of our usual miniature display to celebrate some of the artisans who have graced our kolu over the years - Mr and Mrs Maity from Digha, West Bengal, for their Mahishasura Mardini, made entirely of shells; Pratyusha from Hyderabad, for the paper-quilled Panduranga and Rukmini; Mrs Ramani of Artefakt, Nagpur, for the Kathakali dancers in papier mch; Ms Katiyayni from Chennai for her Durga, Lakshmi and Saraswati made with fabric; and Mr and Mrs Adah, for our Marapachi dolls from our Africa-themed kolu of 2008, which were dressed by my husband, Sabesh.

Janaki Sabesh with daughter Dhwani and husband Sabesh
All our kolu dolls are miniatures. The height of the five steps on which the dolls are placed is about 2 feet. Also, every year we explore a different theme.
Other than the festivities, which are obviously special, its an occasion to showcase our creativity and meet friends. Every year, we enjoy setting up the kolu, planning the return gifts, and hunting for the right kind of dolls. Also, kolu has always been a family affair for us. When my daughter Dhwani was young, she wanted us to have a koluand thats how our kolu journey started! My husband is the main architect of our kolu, while the rest of us help him in whatever way we can.


Janaki Sabeshs 2020 Kolu celebrating various artists

(R-L) Sapna with her sisters Simran and Madhuri, and daughter Riya
I hail from Rajasthan but live in Chennai. Although we dont visit Rajasthan every year, we follow certain customary practices during Navratri. On all nine days, we light an oil or ghee lamp, making sure it glows for 24 hours; fast; and keep a kalash (copper pot) filled with water in the puja room. Usually, we wear shades of red during Navratri. Although the custom is to visit a Kali temple daily during this time, its not possible nowso we go on Fridays. Also, we eat only home-cooked meals, and avoid garlic and onions. I have a deep love for the festival, as it celebrates feminine power. I proudly engage my 7-year-old daughter in the festivities, and she enjoys Navratri as much as I do.
Sapna Sharma, Montessori teacher and mom to a 7-year-old

CS Maithreyi with husband Dhilip Kumar and son D Dev Aryan
For my family, Navratri is THE season of bliss and festivities. My husband and I love to brainstorm, plan and execute Navratri. Its a team effort, and we love working together. The satisfaction or aatma tripti we feel after the festivities is indescribable! Our toddler Dev gets to experience all the good vibes associated with this festival. Dressing up every evening, people coming over, the prasadam (offerings), the story around the dolls and his endless questionsIm sure hell recall these happy memories when he grows up.
Every year, we come up with a kolu theme that is close to our hearts. Some of the themes from the previous kolus include country landscapes (countries we visited
that year) and guru lineage (Lord Shiva, Adi Shankara, Mahaperiyava).
Last years kolu at our home had two parts:
The traditional part with steps

A story based on the birth of Goddess Durga. It was a DIY project inspired by an infographic we found online

As we were living abroad and couldnt travel to India then, we shipped most of the dolls from Chennai. We wanted to give an eco-friendly yet relevant thambulam gift, so we had ordered reusable cloth masks from an NGO in India. The masks were much appreciated by our friends here in Singapore.
- CS Maithreyi, HR professional
As a child growing up in Kolkata, one of the biggest excitements for me was Durga Puja. My dad would take my cousins and meall dressed up in new clothesto see the most-talked-about pandals in the city. The challenge was to see as many Durga idols as we could. We would visit the innumerable food stalls, gorging on rolls, puchkas (small puris filled with spicy potato mixture and tamarind water), and sweets. We wouldnt return home before 3 a.m.! During the teen years, my friends and I would go pandal-hopping, sometimes walking for miles. Later, when we moved to Bengaluru and then Chennai, I made it a point to visit the pandals and take the blessings of Ma Durga. Im continuing the tradition with my son, as I take him every year to Pandals that are put up in whichever city we are at to enjoy the celebrations and this beautiful culture.
Sahana Charan, writer and mom to a teen

Sahana Charan with her son Saakshath
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