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Shiva - the lord of creation, preservation, and destruction. This Mahashivaratri, here are some important lessons your child could learn from one of the greatest Hindu Gods.
"Fire is His head, the sun and the moon His eyes, space His ears, the Vedas His speech, the wind His breath, the universe His heart. From His feet, the Earth has originated. Verily, He is the inner self of all beings."
-Anonymous, The Upanishads
Lord Shiva, the destroyer of evil and negativity, is considered one of the most powerful Hindu Gods, alongside Lord Brahma and Lord Vishnu. He is known by many names -- Mahadeva, Pashupati, Nataraj, Bholenath, Devendra, Neelakanta, Rudra, Shambhu, and more. Lord Shiva is the embodiment of many virtues like selflessness, patience, and a strong will. And He is believed to be the source for the creation of the universe.
According to author and speaker Nithin Sridhar, the mythological origin of Shivaratri is more important than the historical origin. "The origin of Shivaratri is basically the story of the marriage of Shiva and Parvati. While Shiva represents cosmic consciousness, Parvati represents shakti. The coming together of Shiva and Shakti is believed to be the cause for the creation of the universe. Shivaratri is the celebration of the origin of the universe. We are re-enacting this shrishti by celebrating Shivaratri," he explains.
On the occasion of Mahashivaratri, we tell you the important lessons you can share with your child based on Lord Shiva.
Meditate to focus better: Lord Shiva, also known as Adiyogi, is known for his ability to focus. He does this through meditation and is often shown as seated in 'siddhasana' (a seated yoga position) and meditating.
Look beyond the surface: Lord Shiva's 'third eye' symbolizes the 'mind's eye' or the 'inner eye.' He is also known as Tryambaka, one whose wisdom is free of 'maya' or any illusion.
Speak the truth: According to the Linga Purana, once Lord Vishnu and Lord Brahma entered a competition to prove which one of them is superior, by trying to find the beginning and the end of the Shiva lingam. Lord Brahma said he will get up on his swan and fly up to find the beginning of the lingam and Vishnu said he'll become a boar and try to get to the bottom of the lingam. Whoever found what he was looking for and returned to ground zero first would be considered the superior one. After searching for some time and not finding the bottom or the top of the lingam, both Gods returned to the surface. While Vishnu spoke the truth and said he couldn't find the bottom of the lingam, Brahma said he did find the top and showed a mallika flower as proof. The lie angered Lord Shiva and he refused to accept mallika flowers as an offering and also punished Lord Brahma for uttering the lie.
Be positive: One of the most important powers of Lord Shiva is that he destroys everything that is evil and negative. The kamandalam or the water pot of Lord Shiva stands for the purity of mind and self.
Practice restraint: Lord Shiva's body is covered in ashes. The ashes symbolize the physical world and talk about how everything in life is temporary. "Lord Shiva is a yogi and a dispassionate person. He burnt down Kamadeva. He is known to destroy materialistic desire," says Nithin.
Learn to be calm: Lord Shiva is often called 'Maha Yogi.' That is because, barring exceptional situations, he is always in a reflective and calm state of mind, thinking about the well-being of the universe.
Channel your energies in a constructive way: Lord Shiva is also known as Nataraj (the King Of Dance) and chooses to express himself through dance. When he is angry, he does the Rudra Tandava and when he is happy, he does the Ananda Tandava. His dance is supposed to be the cause for the universe's creation, preservation, and destruction.
Value time: "Shiva is known as Mahakaal and represents time and teaches the importance of valuing every minute of your life," points out Nithin.
While your child stands to gain a lot by imbibing these lessons in how he conducts himself every day, you also benefit from them as a parent. Teach him these lessons and also practice them yourself to meet your parenting goals.