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This International Women's Day, we take a look at some outstanding Indian sports women who are inspirations and role models in their own respective fields.
"It doesn't matter what your background is or where you came from. If you have dreams and goals, that's all that matters."
- Serena Williams
Sports has the unique ability to give you a sense of accomplishment while teaching you a number of life skills. Confidence, hard work, discipline, overcoming adversity, team work and sacrifices are a few things that you learn while playing a sport.
It is important for children to grow up with positive role models and there is no better arena to turn to than the sports field. In recent years India has seen a boom in female sports stars who have achieved great success against all odds. Success didn't come to them overnight instead they worked hard and ultimately earned plaudits and fame. One of the pioneers in India sport PT Usha famously said, "Happiness is nothing but satisfaction - satisfaction through work, thoughts and accomplishing our mission."
Playing sports not only helps your child stay active but also imbibes a number of positive traits in them. A never say die attitude, winning mentality, working in a team, passion and hard work, being focused, better communication skills are some of qualities that define great athletes. We look at some of the inspiring female Indian athletes who have overcome numerous obstacles to thrive and shine in their chosen field.
What you can learn from Sindhu
"Win or lose, I always focus only on giving my 100 percent."
Sindhu is known for her great work ethic as she travelled 56km every morning from her home to make it on time for training. Sindhu also admits that the sacrifices by her parents have made her the champion she is today.
What you can learn from Saina
"I love winning more than I love badminton. Winning is everything"
As a young child when she moved to Hyderabad despite not knowing the language she channelled her energy into her badminton instead. Despite a lot of financial strain on her parents in her initial years on the tour, Saina worked hard and repaid them tenfold after her success.
What you can learn from Mary
"Don't give up as there is always a next time"
In a sport dominated by men, Mary had to convince herself and others that she belonged in this sport. She struggled to find sparring partners early on in her career so used to train with men.
What you can learn from Dipa
"The more you practice, the more you will get better"
Dipa had flat feet something not ideal for a gymnast, she worked hard to develop an arch and strength in her feet. Mattresses were her friend while training. All these struggles were worth it as she landed one of the most dangerous vaults in the world - the Produnova and went on to compete at the Rio Olympics.
What you can learn from Hima
"Success and failure are part and parcel of life"
Coming from a financially backward family, Hima didn't even have enough money to buy proper shoes to run in. Despite this she didn't let it hinder her and overcame the odds to eventually sprint to victory.
What you can learn from Sania
"Even if you are the World No 1 you still have things you can improve on"
Sania put Indian world tennis on the map and despite numerous controversies including critics belittling her achievements. Sania continued to put her head down, overcame a wrist injury, worked hard and continued to win laurels for the country.
What you can learn from Mitali:
"Every day is a chance to get better"
In a country where the men's cricket team dominates headlines Mithali Raj brought the women's team to the limelight. From a South Indian family, Mithali bucked the trend and pursued sports instead of academics. She is hailed as a great captain and batsman for India.
What you can learn from Sakshi
"To those who told me I'm a girl and couldn't wrestle, I want to say, please show some trust, girls can do everything"
Coming from conservative Haryana Sakshi fought not only patriachybut boys on the field too and grew stronger. What she lacked in support from the system she got from her great coach and supportive parents. She didn't let their faith in her go in vain as she became the first Indian female wrestler to win an Olympic medal.
What you can learn from Apurvi
"World No 1 is a milestone but I've been working hard"
A late entrant to the sport aged 15, Apurvi is one of India's medal hopefuls at the Tokyo Olympics. In a sport that leaves little margin for error, she believes that hard work is most important regardless of talent or privilege and that nothing else can replace that. She is very goal-oriented and feels it's important to set short and long term goals.
So encourage your children to do sports as if they are interested and pursue it - the sky is the limit. As Amercian gymnast and Olympic Gold medallist Aly Raisman said, "You have to remember that the hard days are what make you stronger. The bad days make you realize what a good day is. If you never had any bad days, you would never have that sense of accomplishment."
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Written by Sherine Paul-Solomon on March 02, 2021.
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