The last 24 hours before an exam can be stressful. Even well-prepared students may become anxious. A few simple strategies can help children stay calm, focused, and confident. From smart revision habits to healthy routines and emotional support, these practical tips will help parents guide their children through the night before and the morning of the exam

Butterflies in the stomach, tossing in the bed, frequent restroom visits, and not to forget the over-chewed nails. Yes, you guessed right, it is the final 24 hours before the exam. No matter how well prepared your child is, these last few hours can be unnerving. It is, therefore, very important that you do your bit to soothe the frayed nerves and give your child the much-needed boost to head into the examination hall with confidence. As a first step, recognise that exam anxiety is normal and not something to be unduly worried about.
Does your child seem unusually restless, irritable, or anxious before an exam? Many children experience exam nerves, even when they have prepared well. What matters most during these moments is the support and reassurance they receive from parents. A calm, encouraging presence at home can make a huge difference in how your child approaches their exams and manages their emotions.
According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, exam anxiety often stems from the fear of failure, and when children tie their self-worth to the outcome of an exam. A little pressure can be good as it motivates children to learn their lessons earnestly, but too much pressure can have the opposite effect. Too much anxiety, especially on the night before and the morning of the exam, can sometimes cause the child's brain to completely blank out when they sit down to write the exam! Scary, right?
The onus is firmly on you, the parent. If you are supportive, your child will stay positive and use smart techniques to prepare well. In this article crafted just for you and your child, we have put together some smart tips for those last 24 hours that can have a transformative effect on your child's exam outcome. Shall we get 'smarter'?
Here are a few important things students should do the night before an exam:
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Reason: The night before the exam should be all about simple revision. A child must prepare for the exam well in advance, without keeping portions for the last minute. During the days before the exam, as your child studies every day, encourage them to make study notes. Writing down always helps remember what one has studied. The night before the exam, go through these study notes. This is not the time to try any new learning technique or tackle any new study material. A simple review of the study notes created over the past few days is all that should be done the night before.
Reason: The night before the exam should be a relaxed one. Ensure your child takes frequent breaks during revision. Encourage them to get up and stretch, go for a walk, talk to family about things other than exams, watch a funny video for a few minutes, or listen to relaxing music. They can also read or watch something that makes them laugh to help reduce stress levels. This, in turn, will help them get a good night's sleep. Light exercise or a short brisk walk can help reduce stress and recharge the brain.
Reason: On the night before the exam, make sure your child gathers all the materials they'll need for the exam the next day. This includes uniform, shoes, hall ticket, identity card, writing pad, water bottle, stationery, among others. Ensure there's adequate stationery, extra pens, pencils, erasers, and any tools (calculators allowed for the exam). All these should be packed the night before to avoid last-minute panic.
Reason: Your child's overworked brain needs 'healthy' refuelling. They will need all the energy to focus on their studies. Avoid junk food and instead, prepare a nutritious meal the night before the big day. Get them to take a break from studying and sit down for a family dinner. Avoid foods that are too spicy or sweet. If possible, have an early dinner. The gap between dinner and bedtime can help prevent heartburn or acidity.
Also, ensure they are well hydrated, as dehydration can impair concentration. Remind them to keep taking sips at regular intervals. Place a water bottle on his study table. However, to ensure uninterrupted sleep, they should not drink too much water before bedtime so they don't have to wake up in the middle of the night.
Reason: Your child must understand that a lack of sleep the night before the big day can harm their physical and mental well-being. Unwell is one word you do not want to hear just before an important exam. Adequate rest is essential for maintaining focus and processing new information. Burning the midnight oil is not a way to do so. On the night before the exam, ensure your child goes to bed early and gets around 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. This way, they wake up bright and refreshed the next morning.
"Do not compromise on your sleep before exams. If you get a good night's sleep, you can think with more clarity during exams," says topper Karishma Arora.
Reason: Breathing exercises or yoga for 10 to 15 minutes will help your child stay calm under pressure. Encourage them to talk with you or a close friend about their concerns if they're feeling overwhelmed about the exams. Research also shows that listing out and writing down concerns and fears will help reduce anxiety levels. Keep them away from those friends and relatives who increase anxiety regarding the exam. Ask them not to worry about how much their friends and classmates have been studying. Tell him this exam is about themself, and ask them to focus on writing the exams to the best of their ability.
"Students must remember that studying should happen all through the year and not on the day before the exam. They should work on keeping their notes ready and learnt so that the night before the exam is NOT spent cramming as that will only make the child upset and anxious. The last day should be used to revise the study points. It is also important to keep all the notes and materials organised, as this makes it easy to study," says Dr Finita Roy, school counsellor at Bala Vidya Mandir Senior Secondary School, Chennai. Finita also believes that maintaining a happy and positive attitude before and during the exams is of utmost importance.
"Thinking about marks and having a negative attitude can only make matters worse. A student should stay relaxed and focused on the lessons, instead of thinking about the results," she adds.
Reason: Ensure domestic disturbances or discussions at home do not distract your child or interrupt their focus on studies. "I have noticed that many students get distracted by petty issues at home, which leads to a lack of concentration. I always advise students to be a little selfish during the exams and detach themselves from whatever is happening around them, so that they focus only on their studies," says Dr. Finita Roy.
Apart from domestic issues, it could be a friend who needs some last-minute revision help or a neighbour who wants to recount the adventures of her trip - whatever it is, all it does is suck up your child's precious time. Help them steer clear of all these unwarranted distractions.
Reason: It may not be necessary to totally go off all gadgets on the night before the exam. But keeping mobile chats and social media to a minimum helps save precious time. Also, it is important to stay focused and positive the night before the exam. Avoid watching disturbing news on television or the Internet.
Here are a few important things students should do on the morning of an exam:
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Reason: Getting ready in a rush will only heighten your child's anxiety level. Reach the exam hall ahead of the scheduled time. So it's important that your child wakes up early enough and begins the day on a fresh note.
Reason: On the morning of the exam, ensure your child is not attempting to read from the textbook, as this might overwhelm them. If necessary, ask them to browse through the important notes they have made. Otherwise, it's best to avoid any last-minute studying.
Reason: Has your child packed their bag the night before the exam? Ask him to recheck that they have stationery, relevant documents such as the hall ticket or admit card, and the necessary writing equipment.
Reason: On the morning of the exam, it is common to feel butterflies in the stomach. To help your child calm down, encourage her to take a few deep breaths for a couple of minutes each time she is nervous. Breathing exercises, meditation, and yoga are proven ways to calm oneself.
Reason: Your child may not be in the right frame of mind to eat in the morning, and the only thing they're thinking about is their exam. But, impress upon them that going to the exam hall on an empty stomach will make them feel irritable and disoriented. So, make sure they do not skip this all-important meal. Give them a hearty and healthy breakfast.
Reason: If you or your child wants to perform any rituals for good luck, go ahead and do that. The idea is to do anything that helps them feel good and optimistic, and to keep focused. After all, if they're in the best frame of mind, half the battle is won.
Reason: Make sure your child avoids any confrontation with family members, neighbours, friends, and other people before going to the exam hall. It would destroy their calm and cause anxiety.
"On the previous night and on the day of the examination (and all other days), refrain from comparing your child with siblings and friends or criticising their academic abilities. Be supportive and encouraging by telling your child to go and write the exam with confidence and not worry about results. Tell your child that you love and accept them the way they are. It is important parents ensure that the atmosphere is relaxed and positive."
1. Be supportive and loving towards your child as they work hard and put in all their energy and effort into their studies. Let your child know you are available to help whenever they need you.
2. Create a happy and conducive environment for your child to study at home. Let them feel they can approach you with any problems. Tune in to your child's feelings. Be there to listen to their concerns without any judgment or advice.
3. Avoid talk that focuses on marks. Instead, direct your conversations towards exam preparation, learning, and effort.
4. Create a stress and disturbance-free space for your child. Avoid unnecessary domestic issues. Ensure family members don't play loud music or watch TV at raised volumes.
5. Engage your child in interesting conversations (other than studies) during breaks.
6. Eat together as a family at the dinner table without gadgets. It is a wonderful time to share and converse.
7. Limit screen time. However, don't make the mistake of allowing your child unlimited access to mobile phones throughout the year, then suddenly banning all gadgets before the exams. This will increase the tension between you and your child. Regulate their gadget use throughout the year and advise them to use them minimally during exams.
8. Make sure the mode of transport you choose for your child to reach the exam hall on time is fueled and ready. Avoid discussing controversial, emotional topics on the way to the exam hall.
9. Prepare healthy and nutritious meals and snacks that will give your child an extra boost of energy.
10. Make sure your child gets a good night's sleep for at least 7 to 8 hours on the night before the exam. Have them switch off all gadgets at least one hour before bedtime and make it a no-gadget-in-your-room night.
Examinations are an important part of your children's academic life, but they should not determine their dignity and self-worth. A loving home environment, confidence, and a positive attitude will help your child find success.
Finita Roy holds a doctoral degree in Rehabilitation Sciences and is a School Counsellor.
Last updated on: March 10, 2026
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