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    This father-son duo travels to historic places in India, talking history and discovering newer ways to bond

    Vijay Kumar Vijay Kumar 6 Mins Read

    Vijay Kumar Vijay Kumar


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    Vijay Kumar and his son travel through antique lands to discover that history can come alive through stone and sculpture. And learn that heritage doesn't belong to the past but is part of us. Here's part 1 of their travelogue series: Temples of Kanchipuram

    This father-son duo travels to historic places in India, talking history and discovering newer ways to bond

    We are not makers of history. We are made by history. — Martin Luther King Jr, American leader, civil rights activist

    As the father of a (then) nine-year-old boy, I had resigned myself to the fact that funny, serious, easy, tough and unanswerable questions would come my way as part of the parenting package. So, once when my son innocently asked Dad, 'didn't goblins build temples?' I wasn't surprised. Like me, he too has listened to his fair share of tales narrated by his obliging Grandma. And I guess he found it easier to believe that strange goblins, rather than mighty kings, built temples. As goblins, kings and temples are rarely seen in the same sentence, I'll tell you what led to the question.

    It was the last weekend of our annual vacation and we had already visited all the standard picnic sites many times over. Gone were the glitz of the malls and the long drives along highways. When I suggested Kanchipuram, there was a collective groan: 'Not temples again!' But I promised that this picnic would be a unique one.

    So, we set off with the now indispensable mineral water bottles filled with neer more (spiced buttermilk) under the seat. The boot of the car was loaded with reminders of our long-gone wedding day — an assortment of casseroles and water coolers that every bride and groom invariably received as gifts in those days.

    The women were up early as I insisted on a pre-Aditya (before sunrise) start, preparing a menu of tamarind rice, lemon rice, curd rice, vadams and lemon pickle. The suspense was becoming unbearable and Junior was hazarding guesses on where I might be taking him. We reached the impressive Kanchi Kailasanatha Temple and he was a bit put off by its size. Maybe he was expecting something to match Sri Raja Raja Chola's massive 11th century CE edifice in Thanjavur. Junior was not impressed by the temple's exterior either.

    I told him that even the great Chola emperor had stood in awe of this very temple and called it a big stone temple. Some believe that this inspired Raja Raja Chola to build the Tanjore Big Temple (he called it 'Kacchipedu periya thirukkatrali').

    "But, Dad, didn't goblins build temples?" He went on to recite how the goblins are tricked into completing the task of raising huge stones to build the gopuram before sunrise. When they failed to complete their tasks before sunrise, they left their job half done, resulting in mottai (bald) gopurams.

    "No, my boy. They were indeed built by people, but these people were not like us!"

    "Oh, I knew it. Must be aliens or Autobots helping us humans," he said.

    "No, they were made of flesh and bone like us. But these ordinary people were gifted artistes who dedicated their lives to creating immortal works of art. And, by the way, do you know that this temple was built 1,300 years ago by Rajasimhan Pallava?"

    "Wow, incredible!" Junior's spirits soared.

    "And not only has the temple survived for so long, but the outer passage also has a few chambers still adorned with paintings from the Pallava era."

    A painting from the Pallava era

    He said, "No way. How did the paint stay for so long?"

    I challenged him, "You want to take a bet?"

    Excitedly, he ran and peeped into the first chamber. But he was disappointed with what he saw.

    Me: "Not all the paintings have survived. But I can confirm that there are at least four mini shrines which still have paintings."

    Him: "I can see it here. It's Vishnu."

    "Yes, to his right is the face of Shiva, all part of the Somaskanda form we have seen in Mamallapuram before. It was a favorite motif of Narasimhavarman II."

    "But, Dad, you said Rajasimhan!"

    "Both refer to the same king. In fact, he had 244 birudas or titles."

    "244 names? You must be pulling my leg."

    "Look at the names here. He has inscribed them four times on stone, each in a different style. The topmost is in the Devanagiri script while the rest are in Pallava Grantam. Can you see how the script gets more and more ornate towards the bottom?"

    "Oh, yes. So, it's not a design."

    "No, it's a calligraphic script."

    My son disappeared behind another chamber and then called out in excitement. "Dad, Dad! Here's one more."

    "Yes, you can see Parvathi clearly in this."

    "This temple is so different from any we have been to before. Every inch is filled with sculpture and paintings."

    "Well, this was one of the earliest structural temples other than the Shore Temple and a few others from that period. But imagine how it would have looked when the sculpture was painted over as well? Yes, at the time it was consecrated, it was completely painted in vibrant colors. You can still see the remnants in some places."

    "Wow, what a superlative effort, Dad!"

    "Yet the king was asked to postpone the consecration day by God. Apparently, God appeared in his dream and told the king that He had already agreed to attend the consecration of another temple on the same day and asked the king to change the date."

    "I am sure you made this up!"

    "Well, there's an inscription right here which refers to a celestial voice heard by the king. This is evidently an allusion to the story in the Periyapuranam, where it is said that the Pallava king was directed to postpone the consecration of this temple so that the Lord may attend a similar ceremony at the temple constructed by Saint Pusalar."

    "Which temple?"

    "Well, Pusalar, one of the 63 Nayanmars (Shaivaite saints), wanted to build a temple for Siva. But he didn't have enough money for it. So, he built one in his heart, complete with all the aspects of a perfect temple and even set the date for its consecration. So pleased was the Lord with Pusalar's devotion that he agreed to attend the ceremony and asked the king to change his date even though the king had built a beautiful, real temple."

    "Are you sure they were built by humans and not goblins?"

    "They were humans and the entire history is recorded in inscriptions and also depicted in the Vaikunta Perumal Temple nearby."


    "Save your wows! We haven't covered the best part of the picnic yet. I'll show you something that predates this temple by 100 years and which was also visited by Sri Raja Raja Chola."

    Here's part 2 of the three-part series. 

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