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किसी भी माता पिता के लिए यह सुनना बहुत दुखद होता है कि उसके बच्चे मे किसी प्रकार की कमी है, मेरी सहेली जा़रा के जीवन में भी ऐसा ही एक दिन आया जब वो अपनी शांत सी रहने वाली बेटी को डाक्टर के पास ले गये और डाक्टर ने बच्ची को आटिज्म से ग्रसित बताया, कुछ समय के लिए तो वह बहुत दुखी हुए, लेकिन उन्होंने आटिज्म को बिमारी न समझकर एक पाजिटिव साइन समझा कि उनकी बेटी कुछ अलग है, इसलिए बेटी के लिए कुछ अलग किया जाये..., उनकी बेटी को कागज की क्वैलिंग करके कार्ड, व अन्य सामान बनाना बहुत पसंद था, सो उन्होंने उसे पेपर क्वैलिंग का प्रशिक्षण दिलवाया, जिसमें अब उसे महारत हासिल है और वह जारा क्रीयेशन के नाम से अपना छोटा सा हैंडमेड स्टोर चलाती हैं तो, इसलिए मैंने देखा कि उन्होंने आटिज्म को बिमारी न समझकर एक अच्छी चीज समझी और खुद को अवसाद से ग्रसित नहीं होने दिया, अपने प्यार व स्नेह से बेटी को काबिल भी बना दिया, और अब वह आटिज्म के प्रति जागरूकता भी फैलाते हैं कि यह कोई बिमारी नहीं, प्यार और दुलार ही इसका इलाज है.।वह चाहते तो घोर निराशा मे जा सकते थे लेकिन.. उन्होंने साकारात्मक राह चुनी. अब वह अपने जीवन से खुश व संतुष्ट हैं।
Autism .... a simple word but certainly lack awareness among general people.... We can only come to know about it when someone who is dear to us is suffering from it.... I know it’s been difficult to go through it but with a strong mindset and positivity one can definitely win over it.... My niece has a son who is five year old suffering from Autism .... when he was three we realised he wasn’t the same as other kids... and when interrogated further his medical condition came to realise the fact that he is an Autism patient. My niece she took the things very positively and have started working towards his improvement. Taking him for speech therapy, eye and hand co-ordination , having patience with him is the only routine she follows. For his treatment she has shifted to a different city without her husband and managing things ... her husband being pillar of strength for her.... Seeing her have realised however adverse the conditions may be.... we shouldn’t loose hope and keep on working towards the goal....She has enforced the trust even in us that he will be normal and her efforts are showing up... He has considerably improved and we all are looking forward to see him in a better condition as soon as possible.... I would end by just saying we all need to be little kind and humble to such kids and give our all love and affection .
Honestly Speaking, word Autism Synonymous I found from Google Seach. It says ,"a broad range of conditions characterised by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviour, speeches & non verbal communication. To my surprise, I come under Autism but with my independent, strong mindset, self-awareness living I am stable and normal. I still avoid social interactions. I am joyful with my own thoughts, singing with routine work, reading books/articles, writing. I have learned important lessons of life through experiences and somewhat through education. My son gave me true life meaning where I am focused, keen observer, thinker in proper direction. All in all, I am grateful to GOD for every ups and downs, for meeting good and toxic persons in my life. I found hidden treasure of living: Trust, Believe, Faith in God & Yourself.
#your100wordsstory my child is autism.she is so shy by nature. I realise that she fear on stage and then i put on activity .she loves this making beautiful painting,drawing as well as creative things and slowly 2 she take part in this type of competition and not believing she earn ist position .she become fearless and tell her problem.disscuss in school. I want to give all credit to think positive way not afraid any circumstances and be creative is the way temove autism.
I am sharing a true story of my neighbour Priya who had her younger daughter born with autism. I was not only inspired by Priya's grit but also the way it taught me some of the life's important lessons! Her family had moved to Chennai from the US and it was an uphill task to adjust to the new surroundings not to say the least the prying eyes of society! But Priya being the epitome of patience handled it with elan .To all the curious people who had noticed her younger one behave abnormally , Priya was always there to defend her. She would take the child our to the nearby park and let her mingle and play with other kids. Sometimes when the younger one is restless I have seen her elder sister immediately offering her solace along with the constant supervision of Priya.
She enrolled the child in an open school and also put her up for drawing classes , skating classes etc.
Never ever have I heard a single abuse coming from Priya's mouth and I wonder how we as parents keep on scolding our kids when we lose our cool. Hats off to her for I have learnt the virtue of parenting in a positive way. I just hope that our society could be more accommodating in their behaviour towards autistic kids and their parents. We actually have a lot to learn from them. The parents of such kids already have a tough life , let us not make it more so for them. Let us be compassionate fellow beings for they are also creation of the same God!
My friend Nikita has one daughter who is suffering from Autism.When she was diagnosed about the Autism she was only one and half years old My friend shattered that day . It is not easy for parents to handle the situation . Her husband was a nice personality . He took this situation very bravely.Now They are a Happy family.They were both working but know mother left the job and gave her full time to her daughter. She works from home know because she lives in nuclear family . Noone is there to support them and they can't leave the child alone in the maid's hand. My friend is working from home know and she is facing this situation with broad minded .
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