I love my child. She is 2. And it has been 2 years since I've slept! It sounds funny but some days, it is tiring. As much as I try shutting off the lights at 9, telling her stories, play soothing music, she enjoys the rituals and then jumps up with all the energy once I'm done. Then my husband takes her down to my mother-in-law's because she cries her lungs out if he doesn't abide. she comes back and sleeps at 12 AM. When he isn't in town, she asks but I don't abide. She still sleeps late. She sometimes naps by 3 PM and wakes up at 6 PM or some days she doesn't nap at all. 'Making' her nap is not possible unless I nurse her. But I'm a working mom and my MIL takes care of her. How do I set the pattern right?