Hello dear mommies! I delivered a beautiful baby girl a few months ago. Usually, I love dressing up and spending time for myself wearing makeup and selecting jewellery every day. But now I’ve lost interest and I don’t have the time either. My sister saw me the other day and asked me why my hair looks unruly. I felt irritated and was on the verge of crying. Why do new moms feel like this? I really want to dress up but I don’t want to spend too much time on it. Ladies, please motivate me and give me some tips. I’m also curious to know if other mothers go through this. Do new dads also go through the same thing?
@Raksha Raghavan In a way, it is not about time. It is about the new sweet burden that enters into our family. As a mother I feel I need rest first of all. Leaving the job, ambitions and paying attention to eat well only to feed my baby, and to wash her clothes, change her diapers sometimes gets frustrating. My dream to spend a few hours to get dresses for my new size this weekend don't seem to work as my daughter is running a mild fever today. Is this how all new mothers feel. Want to know how other mothers are feeling, dedicated to the new born infinite%?
@Akashee Hi Akashree, first of all congrats for ur new born. Welcome to the Motherhood.. Motherhood is actually a God's gift, where only few can feel it. But at the same time it's frustrating sometimes. Even I was in the same frustration when I had a new born . Felt same like u, with no make up, messy hair, uncomfortable outfits.... Oooooofff... But now things are becoming quite normal. Only few months you might feel like this bcoz the new born becomes our world.. But once they start to grow we will be back to our normal lifestyle. Don't be thinking of it, spend as much time with baby that boosts you up!